與丈人的獨處時光
進入布達加勒斯，第一個目的地就是市政廳與警察局；原來，羅馬尼亞人若身分證過期，必須要前往市政廳繳更換證件的費用，大約是15Lei（1Lei=7元新台幣），再前往所屬小區的警察局申請更換證件，工作天大約是兩週，兩週後再來領證件。
來到小區的警局，好奇的柯太跟著柯薩克先生進去警局，哇！塞滿滿的都是等待要申請的人，雖然有冷氣，可是沒有太多座椅，大家都是站著排隊等候。
柯薩克先生不要柯太在警局陪伴
👦🏼「你去外面跟我爸一起等！」
👩🏻「好哦！」
站在警局外的樹蔭下，眼前一排醒目的警車，柯太開啟了第一次跟柯爸獨處，慈眉善目的柯爸很害羞，站在右側，不斷的往右側的街道看去，看天空、看右側、看地上⋯再與柯太四目相對
👴🏻：「$@%¥%#+！🥰」
👩🏻：「對啊！天氣好好哦！」
👴🏻指著警車上方的鳥：「$@*%#¥🥰」
👩🏻：「哇！有小鳥耶！」
就這樣，柯太與丈人的獨處時光長達半個小時以上，原本以為柯薩克大概十分鐘就出來，沒想到因此創造了機會讓我可以跟丈人溝通聊天。
💬 其實柯太也是看左側街道、看建築、看地上，再微笑與柯爸四目相對
💬你猜對了嗎？其實柯爸講羅語，柯太說英語（彼此不通）
✔️我們就這樣雞同鴨講了半個小時
✔️出門在外，只會英語是不夠用的
✔️看上、看左、看下，續飽微笑是必要的
✔️比手畫腳是國際禮儀的起手式
The precious time with tata
Entering Bucharest, the first destination was the City Hall and the police station. If a Romanian’s ID card is expired, it’s necessary to pay a tax ( it’s 15Lei, 1 Lei =7 NTD) at the City Hall and to apply a new one from the police department from your district. The working days are about two weeks.
Entering the police station, I was really curious to see what did it look like inside, it was full of people waiting in line, although there’re AC but not enough seats, everyone was standing.
You didn’t want me to wait inside.
👦🏼”Why don’t you go stay with tata?”
Standing in the shadow, in front of us were the police cars, it’s the first time I stayed with tata along , tata was nice and shy, standing at the right side, looked to the right side of the street, up to the sky, down on the ground, then ..gave me the eye contact.
👴🏻”$@%¥%#+！🥰”
👩🏻”Yeah! The weather is really nice!”
👴🏻pointed to the birds”$@*%#¥!🥰”
👩🏻”Wow!There’re birds!”
We stayed and chatted for more than half hours, it’s actually fun for me to chatted with tata.
💬Actually I was looking to the left, to the building, and the ground, then gave tata a big smile and eye contact.
💬Did you guess it right? My dad in law spoke in Romanian, and I spoke in English. (We actually can’t communicate)
✔️We chatted for 30 mins, n English is not enough.
✔️No matter where you looked to, big smile is always necessary.
✔️Body language is the beginning of international etiquette.
#communication #bodylanguage #羅式浪漫 #羅式浪漫就是很實際 #fatherinlaw #來聽故事吧
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